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I am waisting my time at this point and I am something to do for him in his spare time, he is passing time — with ME. I have girlfriends to go to museums, festivals and so on with….

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I was an EUM! But I am just not sure this experience is worth it. I am not sure I want to be too good at this sort of thing, as I am already nervous about my ability to be natural and trusting again.

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