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My sex drive has always been high and I have enjoyed a relationship or two where my partner could match that drive I am not unhappy with my marriage just frustrated that I do not get any sex and have to reach for the handy vibrator instead of having the real thing.
I have been married for 15 years. My husband is 59 and I am He never seems in the mood. Never any expression of passion or desire. I would say we have sex maybe 3 times a year. He has been checked out by the doctor all is really fine. The problem is that not only is it not enough sex for me, [but] it makes me feel abnormal for wanting more sex. It affects my self esteem as well. After expressing this problem for many years Women want real sex Whittemore no change I feel like it is just a dead end!!
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Our sex life is great, better than most, we average about four to five times a week along with plenty of snuggling and cuddling as well. He is beyond happy with this but I'm dying most days. There are some days that I'm looking for round two or three and he's running out into the garage to "fix something" or "off Horny seniors in Grand Forks nj do errands" because he can't keep up with me.
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I am that woman who wants it more. I am the woman who is dissatisfied after not seeing my significant other for months due to a long-distance relationship.
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So, when do you take a look at what your needs are and realize that they aren't met? When do you weigh commitment higher than sexual indulgence? My partners have all acknowledged this. In fact, the Women want real sex Whittemore I keep hearing -- or sometimes overhearing when they're talking to friends -- is that I'm "like a dude when it comes to sex.
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Even among my female friends: You can't say men have a higher drive, or women do. All we Asian girls say is this: Some people want more sex than other people.
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It varies widely from person to person regardless of sex. In the vast majority of my relationships, I have always wanted more sex than my partner. I am now 28 and with someone with whom I am sexually compatible, but it wasn't till a few years ago that I actually became fully comfortable with my sexuality.
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